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Communicate Your Feelings Effectively… In 2 Simple Sentences

When our feelings flare up, we tend to communicate our feelings in the least effective way: we blame, criticize, manipulate, or demand. ┬áThe problem feels like the OTHER person’s actions, which we view as “causing” our hurt or angry feelings. … Continue reading

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Why Can’t My Partner Listen To Me?! How understanding your partner can be threatening – and what to do about it.

“I don’t get it,” says a 30-something woman in my office. “He doesn’t seem to hear what I am saying. I can tell him over and over again how I am feeling, and he just sits there or disagrees. It’s … Continue reading

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Regaining Your Connection Through Couples Therapy

You used to be amazing together. You were open, supportive, understanding… passionate. Somehow, it changed. Maybe you have been drifting away from each other. Maybe you fight too often, or struggle with betrayal. You want to recreate that secure, close, … Continue reading

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Provocateur, Mirror, Healer: how your partner can help you grow

“A person hasn’t any idea what their soul looks like until they gaze into the eyes of the person that they’re married to. And then, if they’re any kind of decent human being, they spend the next couple of days … Continue reading

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